Everybody already knows and complains about this. On the apps and IRL, females get gazillion matches, messages and attention. Average guys like me get few matches a week, some pointless convos maybe one or two solid successful dates a month (or quarter).

Last week, I was laying on the bed after hooking up with this girl and she was using her phone. I was BAFFLED by the millions of messages she was getting from all these apps. I'm really disturbed, envious and really have a desire to change this around. I want a ton of girls to message me without me even trying.

Keep in mind, I'm a 28 year old, below average, bald, brown guy. All my childhood and young adulthood I have suffered by body dysmorphia, self disgust and pre-mature self rejection before even being sexually suggestive to anybody.

2022 is the year of my metamorphosis. After fully recovering from a major breakup back in 2021, I have been working out consistently and growing some muscle. I have gotten nice tattoos and got some nice piercings and my self confidence has been steadily rising this past few months. I feel fucking great about myself and I live in a downtown area with a ton of happy hours and social activities. I'm going to fucking take this to the next level tbh. I really want to figure it out.

I'm seriously considering two major changes that come to my mind for the next few months:

1. Starting a band: I love music and I consider it one of my passions. I always wanted to start a band and play fast live music and play gigs. I'm 28 now and I'm a fucking tech yuppie, but that ain't gonna stop me!!
2. Adopting a pet: There is a pet friendly bar/club right next to my apartment. Every time I go there, I see guys hanging out with their dogs and all the girls are always encircling them and chatting with them and petting the dogs! I want a dog too! It would force me to go out on walks! It also helps me have automatic unconditional affection, which would make me less needy in the seduction space!