I (M29) haven't really observed and analyzed my game until I joined this sub. Last night I went out with this chick who I met a few months ago. Went to a bar, played some skee ball and arcade games. We were about to bounce and grab food, when I recognized how much I wanted to make out with her. Also didn't think I'd get such a chance at the restaurant we were headed to. Right when we stand to leave, I say "I want to make out with you." The night ended with us having sex in the back of my car.

Stating your mind clearly and without fear is powerful. Women want a powerful man, not some boy who doesn't know what he wants. Know what you want and ask for it, don't dance around your desires.

I see people on here asking, "how do I escalate? When should I kiss her? How do I get her in bed?" It's easy, if you are genuinely interested in her. When you recognize her as a woman, as an actual person, just like you are, then interact with her like she is a person, there is genuine interest created between the two of you. Wait for that feeling to build between you two and state your mind. At one point last night I asked her what she wanted, if she's looking for anything. We both stated we wanted things casual, thus easing the situation. So speak your mind and be ok with what you want.