As a summary 5 approach 1 insta date and 1 number closing . I only used direct(complimenting about eyes or hair) openers.

i had a feeling that i had to improve my approaching style this time as i got bad results on last 2 ones. firstly i was trying to overcome my anxiety, feeling abundant and having strong eye contact with a confident voice tone during my approaches.

1-I walked her passed and then ran back to approach her and stopped her first thing that she said she might be covid or flu and not feeling good then i asked like are you serious what type of symptoms you got and she said she is coughing and then i said cynical way that we cant date oh im sorry. then she giggled that she said she is appreciated but cannot continue cos she has BF , and then i left didnt wanna push further.

2-from aside approach as she seemed like lost and i came with direct like i liked your hair ,then offered her to walk with her 2 mins , she was receptive but quite shy and then she came out with boyfriend excuse as they are together 8 years. she seemed honest and i left there.

3-She was waiting near the bus stop for her friend and then i said i liked your hair and eyes ,i asked what s her story and what she is up to then she told me that she is waiting for her friend . i asked if it s male then she said yes. then i said you hurted me now my heart is broken and she giggled and i said have a nice day.

4-She was coming towards me and i stopped her with the direct opener,she seemed quite receptive and interested about me , she was quite young cute 8.5 from 10, firstly i asked her what she is up to then she said she is going home then i offered her to grab a coffee with me then she said noo i cant i need to go home, then i said to myself here game started as she seemed quite interested to me.
i was bantering with her , trying to get her qualified she was totally hooked then i asked her again lets grab a coffee then she accepted and we went for a walk with coffee around 40 mins, it was so solid that she was behaving like nice girl to me , i enough sexualized with her about asking what was the craziest thing you have ever done ? her story was not crazy but my story was about outdoor sex :D.

at the end we agreed to drink wine together next week exchanged numbers and after 2 hours i came home she texted me first . i believe that was enough solid.

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5- this was short interactions , she might flake to , she was waiting for her friend on the bench and i approached her with direct then she asked where i am from i asked her guess where , she didnt wanna play much then i told where i am then she said she is gonna drink with her friend outside and i told her lets drink together another time she said yes why not, then we exchanged numbers and her friend came up and i was very friendly to her then said have fun.