hey All, i wanted to share my today's experience in the mall .it started with a certain level of anxiety as i havent been doing many approaches since last week (1-2 per day). i couldnt ask for any girl for instant date because i was on my lunch break.

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*Saw the girl who was playing with her phone and approached with my generic (excuse me hi , i know this is really random but you look cute and i wanted to say hi) opener.i asked her what she is doing on her phone so focused. she said she is looking for job on her phone and then said she has a boyfriend i said you broke my heart and she giggled then left.

*Approached the girl with my generic opener .she a very nice looking girl and she was quite elegant . we started chatting while walking in the mall, she was gonna have lunch with her manager , and we asked eachother's nationality,jobs,where we live and so on. before she was going to metro i told her that i wanna see her again to meet for a coffee and she showed me her engagement ring that i was shocked . she didnt show me at the first place and she was quite receptive. and i finally got her instagram.I dunno she would be coming for coffee or smth . but i really liked her.

*the way back of 2nd approach i saw this girl she was quite cute and this time i didnt use generic opener and said that i liked her hair and she looks pretty.she was quite receptive and she came to mall to return her clothes.she chit chatted around 5 mins then i asked her phone. she said she has a boyfriend , and i said is it serious one ? she said no actually. then i passed my phone to her we exchanged our numbers for a drink later on.

*Stopped the girl in the mall however she didnt speak english .i asked her if i speak slowly would you understand she said no then she left. i didnt push forward with translator so on. it'd be hard to communicate indeed and she was rushing a bit.

*my time was running out and i had to go back home to continue working then i saw very cute pretty young girl and used my generic opener. she was quite shy and she was quite receptive her english was pretty cool since her childhood she s been learning it.she was waiting a friend in the mall to meet. we spoke about many things around 15 mins , and i found out that she is 18 and i m 28 she found this age difference a bit far and didnt want to exchange the numbers once i asked. i was trying to persuade her . told her that it's human nature to have older boyfriend who is more experienced , and men are getting mature later women. said that i want to see her again, and i dont want you to be regret if you change your mind later on. she was giggling all my persistent attemptions to get her number then we finally exchanged our numbers .im afraid she would flake as it seemed a big deal for her the age difference.