I’m not like socially inept or anything, I go to a good amount of functions with my friends to parties and raves to always end up getting along with everybody and cracking jokes and meeting new people while getting info but when it comes to my dating life, I feel a lack of experience and confusion with certain things.

For the past two years, I’ve been through a dry spell and I only had one girlfriend before it but it was somewhat of a sexless relationship and lacked adventure to go places. I didn’t go out and about or intend to meet new girls because I was just busy with my life and trying to get shit done and work on music.

I feel like I have a grasp on things in the present. In the past, I’ve met a few really cool girls that I connected with but I didn’t act soon enough. I’ve learned from my mistakes and I strive to be better from them.

I can nail down cold approaches, conversations, connecting and all of that. The only thing that stumps me is setting things up after I’ve gotten a # or Snapchat. I feel like there’s a dependence with texting on and on to escalate and I don’t like that concept of texting and depending on it but it sets up a date right?

I don’t know, i feel like I have an old soul saying that even though I’m 18 and I haven’t gotten back into it a while, I feel weird and I don’t know if I’m applying my style and unique correctly. I would really appreciate the outside perspective. Thanks!