Overly Confident Men Get More Girls –

It’s a fact of life. The more confidence you display, the more women will find you attractive. In fact, women are more attracted to a man who is adamant in his convictions (even if he’s technically “wrong” in his ideas) vs. a man who is technically “right” in his ideas, but speaks timidly and offers body language which projects uncertainty.

The beauty of confidence is that no one knows or cares where you got it. The just see it and accept it. The world will accept whatever you show it. Remember that. Being confident to the point of absurdity will get you more girls than any line, trick or technique ever will.

Action Step: There’s no magic here. You already know what to do. You’re just not doing it (yet). If you want to be overly confident, you must do something that pushes your comfort zone every day. It doesn’t necessarily have to do with women. The key is identifying anything that makes you nervous, and doing it anyway. It could be asking for that well deserved raise or promotion. It could be confronting someone whose been a thorn in your side. It could be mountain climbing or sky diving.

Go out of your way to find things that make your nervous, and do them anyway. And once you begin, make sure to notice when you’re nervous to approach hot girls, then do it anyway.

Spending More Time “Studying” Pick Up vs “Doing” Pick Up is Pointless –

Guys who get tons of girls don’t spend too much time “talking about” getting girls. They just go out and do it. Better to get rejected 20 times and pull number 21 than “talk about” meeting girls and pull nothing.

Action Step: Start talking to more girls. No idea how to get started? It’s simple. Give random girls you pass everyday compliments. It can be some girl you pass on campus. A girl at the bus stop. A girl walking through the store. A chick standing next to you in the bar. Any girl you see. Then just go on your way.

Now why are you doing this? Is it because compliments are the best way to attract girls?

No. It’s because if your normal operating mode is to see a hot girl and then…….do nothing, while she walks right past, then you need an immediate and dramatic change. Giving random girls compliments gets you to open your mouth and say something when she appears. Do that for a week and it will feel really natural to start talking in the moment when a hot girl appears in front of you.

Everyone Has Inflated Expectations -

How amazing you believe something to be hinders your ability to take action. Check your expectations about women. They’re just people who wear make-up. They have all the same hopes, dreams and problems as everyone else. Having no expectations about a woman will make attracting her so much easier.

Action Step: When you first start seeing a girl, remind yourself repeatedly that “meh…she’s ok.” You want to keep your expectations of her low. Ironically, this will actually cause her to be more attracted to you. Girls immediately ghost and ignore guys who become “too interested” and “too attached.”

Here’s what she’s subconsciously thinking: If YOU think she’s so great, then YOU must not have too much interesting shit going on in your life. You must not have too many female prospects. And therefore, you aren’t really “a catch” for her. This is the time when she starts ignoring your text messages…… Sound familiar?

Temper your expectations. Date multiple girls at the same time. Give yourself options. Focus on yourself and improving your life. All of these things will help reinforce the idea that “meh…she’s ok.” And when you do that, the funniest thing happens, you can’t get her off your tip.

You Become Your Wings –

You will unconsciously become very similar to those you spend the most time with. If you’re hitting the clubs with wallflowers, your game will never rise to the level you’ve always wanted. Surround yourself with successful men and you will prosper.

Action Step: Take a long hard look at your buddies. They may be great friends, but they may also be killing your game. Women are attracted to excitement and fun behavior. If you’re surrounded by dudes who are killing the mood (or are just to afraid themselves to let loose in front of girls), you’re doing yourself a disservice.

There are two ways to go from here. First, you can start going out with different guys. Find some guys who are equally motivated as yourself about picking up women and start hanging out with them.

Second, you can start challenging your existing wings. Push them. Make them expand their comfort zones. In turn, this will help you expand your own comfort zone. Have a challenge like, you’re both approaching 3 girls within the first 5 minutes of entering the club, or next time you’re going out with someone else.

Sometimes It’s Just About Sex –

It’s hard to accept that a girl WOULD HAVE had sex with you, but didn’t, because you became too needy too fast. If you’ve known her for less than a month, you don’t actually know her at all. Stop getting so attached. Give her the best sex of her life while she’s around and be completely indifferent if she disappears.

Action Step: Get this concept drilled into your mind: “You want to hook up. That’s it.” Even if what you actually want is a relationship, still drill this into your mind: “I want to hook up. That’s it.”

Here’s why. We all know that becoming too attached too fast will just push a girl away. So the best thing to do if you want a relationship is what? Don’t get too attached. It’s that aloofness that makes her chase. When she can’t tell if you want her, she does everything to make you want her. When she sees you have other options, she does everything possible to get your attention.

So have the mindset that “I just want to hook up.” And the secret is, most girls just want to hook up anyway.

Girls Are Only “Busy” When You’re Boring –

Guys who get laid the most lead interesting, passionate, fun, unpredictable lives. These lives are magnetic, and women elbow each other out of the way to take part. These guys are focused on their lives, not on girls. That’s attractive. As soon as you start focusing on her and making her the center of attention, you’re boring. And she’s gone.

Action Step: You’ve heard the excuse again and again (maybe you’ve even made it yourself) that “she looks busy” or “I might be bothering her.”

If you were deep in study, or on the phone, or otherwise “busy” and a chub-a-lub tried to interrupt you, what would you do? Well, you’d probably try to act busy so she’d go away. Now what if it was a hot chick. Well, you’d probably put down what you were doing and give her your attention. So, you too are only “busy” when the person trying to interpret doesn’t seem interesting.

The same thing works in reverse. Except with women, “hot” means “confidence” not “looks” when it comes to men.

Confidence is what you “look like.”

Because women are attracted to behavior. Therefore, if you interrupt with confidence oozing off of you, she pays attention. When you approach timidly, with the body language of “I might be bothering her” you get the ignored or looked at in a rude, disapproving way.

Want the kind of confidence it takes to interrupt and command her attention. Go back to Item 1 of this list.

Only Idiots Think Attraction Means “Right Now” -

Most guys miss out on tons of sex because they believe that “if she’s not ready right now, it’s never going to happen.” Yeah, maybe she has a boyfriend right now. Maybe she’s busy right now. But right now isn’t forever. Stick her in your friend zone. Flirt with her and tease her here and there, over time. Women are horny as fuck and things change quickly and dramatically all the time. When the time is right, she will show up on your doorstep.

Action Step: How many hot girls do you have in your friendzone right now? None? Well it’s time to start building YOUR friend zone.

Whenever a girl appears disinterested or has a boyfriend or whatever the excuse, your line is simple “what, you don’t like to have friends?” or “what, your boyfriend doesn’t let you have friends?”

99 times out of 100 you get her social as a “friend.” And hanging out with hot girls as friends always leads to what? You got it: other hot girls.

It’s the easiest way to hook up with tons of girls, and almost every guy overlooks it.

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