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How To Meet A Girl This Weekend (The 7 Lessons You Know But Forgot)
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You already know what to do.

You already know how to attract a girl, get a date, and hook up.

There are no secrets on this board.

If you came here looking for the “magic technique” that’s been eluding you, then you’re going to end up disappointed.

Because there is no magic technique.

There’s nothing left TO LEARN.

You know everything already.

The only thing left is to START DOING WHAT YOU ALREADY KNOW.

Below are 7 Lessons You Know But Forgot about meeting a girl this weekend:

1. Just Talk To Her – If you see a girl you find attractive, just walk over and talk to her. No thinking. No hesitation. Do you realize that all the time you spend “thinking about pick-up” is actually hurting your game? First – it’s time you could be spending actually meeting girls. Second – it puts you “in your head” trying to remember to do (and not do) everything you learned, when you’re talking to a girl. Get out of your head. Stop thinking. And just talk to her. Doing so will make you appear way more natural, comfortable and attractive.

2. Stop Trying To “Do Everything Right” – Trying to do everything right when picking up a girl is trying too hard. Everything will seem forced and unnatural. You won’t be able to get into that fun, carefree, free-flow which is quintessential to creating massive attraction in girls. The “right” thing to do is be yourself, say whatever comes to mind with no filter, have as much fun as possible, amuse yourself and remember to flirt.

3. Stop Waiting for IOIs – How many times have you nursed beers and waited all night for IOIs, only to see all the hot girls go home with other dudes? Getting IOIs is great. And if you see them, shoot your shot. But hanging back in the game of girls, waiting for her to give you signals will ruin your sex life. First – women want men who go after what they want, unprompted. Second – bars/clubs are crowded. Maybe she doesn’t see you. Maybe she’s indifferent between you and 3 other dudes based on physical appearance alone. She’s waiting for you to make your move. So just do it.

4. Remember Why Rejection Is Good – You realize that sexual relationships are not supposed to work out between everybody. There are a bunch of girls out there who you will sexually vibe with. And there are a bunch of girls out there who you won’t sexually vibe with. You just need to find the right ones. And part of that process is weeding through some that aren’t right. Rejection allows you to “know and move forward.” What a waste it would be waiting all night to talk to a girl, only to find out that the sexual vibe isn’t there. Better to get through rejection fast and get on to the girls that you vibe with.

5. Abundance Mentality – This is not the last bar you’ll ever be in. This is not the last hot girl you will ever see. This is not the last hot girl you will ever bang. Most of the time, she’s not “the one.” So chill out. More girls are everywhere. Just that simple thought: “more girls that sexually vibe with me are everywhere” will put a calm, confident, sexual smirk on your face. It will make you speak boldly and confidently. And it will keep you indifferent and unattached. By the way, this is everything girls are looking for anyway.

6. Make Girls Impress You – The world will accept whatever attitude you show it. If your attitude is that you need to impress girls, then any girl you’re talking to will subconsciously pick up on that (girls are very intuitive) and act like you need to impress her. But if you’re attitude is that she needs to impress you, she’ll pick up on that too and act accordingly. And remember, girls actually want a guy who makes her work to get his approval. So have that attitude and be that guy.

7. Play The Game – Any negative thoughts you’re carrying around about past girlfriends, dates, hookups, rejections or any other interaction with girls, is allowing the “game to play you.” In that way, it’s much like the game of life. Most people take what comes to them. The game of life plays them. Successful people go get what they want. They play the game of life. The first step is to just let go of the past. There’s nothing you can do about it anyway. When you put all that baggage aside and start playing the game of girls, you’ll find it to be a lot of fun!

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