1. Singing & Dancing In Public

Have you ever seen that guy at the gym singing along (loudly) to the beat? Have you wondered why he “doesn’t feel embarrassed” doing that? If you wondered that, it’s only because YOU would be embarrassed to do it. Which in turn means you’re too self-conscious and taking yourself too seriously. The opposite of that, not taking yourself too seriously, is the first step to living a carefree life. And a carefree life is highly attractive to girls.

Action Step: If you want an easy way to start pushing your comfort zone and stop taking yourself so seriously, drop in your Air Pods and walk down the street singing away. Be in your own world. Be in the zone. After doing this a few times, you’ll realize that what strangers think of you (if they think anything at all) is irrelevant.

Action Step (Part 2): If you want to dance in the street that’s great. If you’re not quite there yet from a confidence perspective, then dance alone in a club before the dance floor gets jumping. Go out there and dance in your own world. I guarantee that women will be watching. And if you look carefree and fun enough, some of them will come over and join you.

2. Investing Your Time vs. Spending Your Time

How do you spend your day? Is it “thinking about” getting girls? Or is it focusing 100% on your PERSONAL MISSION? Time is limited and valuable. Investing in yourself, believing in yourself and taking whatever steps are necessary each day to advance your personal mission will pay dividends in the future. That’s what “investing” is. Lay the foundation now for an amazing life in the future. And that amazing life includes many beautiful women, because investing in yourself is incredibly attractive.

Action Step: Do you have 1 Personal Goal written down (yes, written down) which you review every morning and develop a plan, each day, to advance that goal? Are you doing everything it takes? If not, then it’s time to get started. Oh, and make sure to write it down. All successful people (in any area of life) say to do that. Maybe you should listen.

3. What’s Worse: A “Big Ego” or a “Fragile Ego”

Many guys will not take the necessary “risks” which they must take to achieve the life they want. This applies to many areas of life, including getting girls. The reason is they are (for some reason) afraid of being seen as pompous, arrogant or an asshole. But what’s the opposite? A fragile ego? A life where all you do is worry about what other people are thinking and saying? The reality is it’s the “fragile ego, nice guy” who ends up getting drunk and making a scene. The Big Ego is too busy getting laid.

Action Step: Ready to push your comfort zone? Take a risk you wouldn’t normally take. Even just a small one to get started. Tomorrow take a bigger one. Better to be seen as a “too arrogant” rather than being seen as a pussy.

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4. Be A “Reliably Unpredictable” Man

Women love mystery and spontaneity. You know this. So why are you always so “predictable?” Why do you plan dates and then take her on exactly the date you planned? Why do you text her with the same predictable shit and the same predictable intervals? Any man who deals with girls ghosting and flaking regularly is guilty of this predictable behavior. Be the kind of guy who SHE CAN COUNT ON, to be unpredictable. It’s exciting. It’s attractive. And it creates moistness, just in the right place.

Action Step: Do something that surprises even yourself when dealing with girls. Plan something and then change it at the last minute. Plan nothing and do something impulsive instead. Say one thing, but then do something else. Take a risk that makes you shiver before doing it, and makes you grin from ear to ear afterwards.

5. Everyone Is Not For Everyone

It’s not going to work out with every girl. Not every girl you approach or are attracted to is going to be a fit. In fact, THAT’S WHY you need to up your game and start approaching more girls, adding more girls to your friend zone and being more social. The guys who sleep with the most women, have dozens of other women around them in various situations who they DON’T sleep with. Women attract women. Surround yourself with women. Not everyone of them is there to fuck you. But they are all there to help you get fucked.

Action Step: How many women are in your friend zone? How many women have you taken to the bar, as friends, and then had her bring other girls over to the table? If this is not part of your game already, you’re missing out on tons of sex. Review the number of girls in your friend zone and then double that number over the next few weeks and months. While you’re doing it, teach them to be wing girls.

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