Hi Guys,

First of all, my deepest apologies for posting up a link that didn't work. I take full responsibility for that.

The link was supposed to go my latest blog post, where I shared my thoughts about the pick-up community..

To summarise what I have wrote, I found that pick-up has made me more insecure and more socially anxious. And I am wondering if that may be the case with other people as well.

A lot of the pick-up techniques that I have learned are pretty sleazy to say the least, but that's my opinion. Also, I don't think they form the basis of a meaningful connection, it is just far out manipulation.

Luckily I found that by having respect for myself and aiming to become a better version of myself, I find that I can have more meaningful connections - with both men and women.

And another thing.. With pick-up, I realised that we are too focused on the outcome. Whether that's getting the girl's number or getting laid. We tend to forget that we are talking to human, not an object.

I like to know your views on this topic.

If you would like to read my blog post, please check out the link below:

http://www.mistry-writer.com/my-problem-with-pickup/

But more importantly, I want to get your perspective on this matter.

Thank you!