This is a common subject that im just looking to rekindle to get fresh community perspectives.

my overall general curiosity with women lies within this sad trope: why do women never meet men halfway initially?

(background) i just turned 30 last month and my life has been riddled with trials and tribuluation, cosmic and circumstancial crutches that all have aided in the lifelong struggle ive had with women.

when i first started gaming 15-20 i was a madman, as i should have. between 20-26 i had a dry spell due to mental health and situational realities that made gaming and dating pretty much impossible. from 26-30 though i got back into slaying it and this is all to say--- never came from money, never was a socially chariasmatic magnetic character. if anything, i sum up all my success to the sad reality that the gym is my therapy and i have to exorcise multiple demons, very frequently.

now are women assholes because they hold the dating leverage and literally dont HAVE to meet us halfway?

of course not reality is reality getting butthurt about it just puts you in a self created madhouse, get outta there.

but man, the amount of women this year alone ive matched with online, even took out a couple, just to realize these women will never -initiate -respond even -have intention -leave a consistent narrative (either their own, or the one involving you) is jus disheartening.

i keep meeting women after women, date after date, match after match.

to perpetually think to myself : "guess shes just not worth my time or maybe we're just not actually a match in reality"

in my area locally i even started attending singles mixers where people INTENTIONALLY go out to meet people TO DATE; get their numbers. ghosted 😂😂😂😂😂

like bruuuhhhhh im at the age now where most of us have little to no free time outside of work, and the age where all the baddies most def-- already taken//have kids

Im never an incel or a misogynist. im just fighting the own demons in my malecentric brain and looking for perspective. I know its dudes younger/older than me with a different life origin killing it and im sure its even dudes younger/older than me with a similar life origin who probably found the sauce---

idc who you are. wanna talk about the obstacle at hand, how to overcome, or more so specifically, how you ended up overcoming?

2025 is our year, lets make it great 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽