Hey everyone! I could use some advice because tonight is a big night for me. I’ve been talking to this super sweet and ridiculously cute guy for a while, and we’ve decided to finally hang out one-on-one. We’ve been vibing over text, and there’s definitely chemistry, but here’s my dilemma:

We agreed to meet up at his place, but now I’m second-guessing if that’s the right move. Shouldn’t he be the one coming to my place instead? I mean, I’m excited to see him, but I also want to make sure I’m handling this in a way that feels safe and balanced.

What do you all think? Is it better for me to go to his place for the first hangout, or should I suggest he comes to mine? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences with this kind of situation!