So the question is, and I think this has been here lot's of times, what do I do if I am literally a real nice guy.

One example, I have met a girl a month ago. We generally spend time at her house cooking and talking. We have also went to a date around the lake and stuff.

The thing is when I am with her all I want to do is just smile and be there with her. Of course I do touch her and stuff but I don't have this feeling of I should immediately escalate and make a move. I am just happy to be there.

This is not just for her. When I go to a date with a girl I generally do not think to go for a kiss or have much sexual desires. If I like the girl, I become very good friends with her but I might be killing romantic part or sexual tension with this but the thing is I am fine without this and like it this way. Tho I know girls generally do not like this.

So what is the problem? Is this even a problem? Can you not find somebody as a sweet, friend type of guy?