Hey everyone, I got a pretty big reaction from my last post so I thought I’d share a sort of similar experience I had last week.

It’s Saturday night and I’m out at the bars with friends. As the night winds down, I decide to run to the bathroom. On my way to the bathroom, I notice this really cute woman dressed in a denim jumpsuit of all things. What surprises me was that we make eye contact, and then she smiles. These small little moments are so exciting to me.

Anyways, I continue forth to the bathroom, wash my hands, and come back out to her standing in the same spot waiting for her drink. I already have a drink but I walk up to the bar as if I need to order something and stand next to her. I tap her shoulder and say, “Hey, I love this denim jumpsuit, it’s really unique”. She thanks me and I turn back towards the bar.

A moment passes, and then she starts engaging me in conversation. We talk about our nights, where we are from, etc. She has an incredibly beautiful face and was looking at me in the eyes so deeply, it left an impression. After chatting for 5-10 minutes, i say I should really get back to my friends. I ask her if we should exchange info. She gives me her phone to add my number and texts me her name.

The next day I text her to set up a date. We don’t catch up much, and we were both drunk during our initial meeting so we are still very much strangers to each other. We make plans to meet a few days later, and get drinks together.

We meet at a cozy whiskey bar. She looks stunning. We talk about our lives, our careers, our families, all the basic stuff. She’s incredibly successful and accomplished in so many ways. I’m impressed but there’s a slight fear too - am I good enough for her? But I don’t dwell on those feelings. Her body language isn’t super welcoming so far, I can tell she’s still warming up to me. We are very different people, and there were many moments where I can’t help but exclaim how opposite I am from her. She just laughs and accepts my honesty, a very kind way to react.

As the night progresses, our conversations go deeper and her body language changes. Her legs get closer to mine, and gravity seems to call my hands to touch them (she was in a very short, leather skirt that was genuinely breaking me). My fingers inch towards her knees and I ask her if this is ok. She says it’s ok. We touch and soon we are kissing at the bar. It feels amazing.

Eventually we call it a night. She orders a car. We make out as we wait for it to arrive, and we don’t stop until the Uber honks at us.

We have been texting daily ever since. I’m seeing her again in a couple days. I’ve been thinking about her a lot :)