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I got really good at asking open ended questions and letting girls just talk about themselves. However, I still had this feeling that they weren’t interested in talking to me, or were just being polite.
I think it was because I was very judgemental in my replies. For example, I would say - “Omg, why would you do something like that?” or “That sounds a bit dumb, no?”
Being non-judgmental has really improved the quality of my conversations with girls and at work. A lot of girls go out of their way to talk to me now. It’s a superpower that doesn’t get talked about a lot.
It really depends on the situation or how you say it but some people don’t mind the opinion. if I am criticizing something they said, try to be playful about by also sharing a time when something similar happened or I did something dumb. So its kinda like a I get you moment. Using emojis helps, since it’s really hard to tell how a person is saying something through text. Try to keep an open mind though, goes without saying.
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