Seriously, I'm curious what usually happens with you just going up and approaching them. I'm saying this because I've had (beautiful) women come up and approach me, I've had one night stands etc but I've never explicitly done the approaching and I really want to learn to do the approaching. I've always done this when a woman has shown interest by engaging with me first. I've only just realised I may have been handicapping myself because I've heard things by serendipity online from both women and men (from a random political podcast and from here) which vaguely alluded to men, women and men doing the approaching and I'm alarmed and deciding to approach women instead of vice versa. I'm kinda saying this because I just saw 2 beautiful women, one on the train and one looking for something in a library. Btw I turned 26 middle of this year.