You can be as clear as possible about your intentions to some dudes and they’ll agree with you and say anything to try to get in your pants. And there’s a point where you finally are sexually vulnerable and you’re either tossed aside or they don’t to want to keep learning about you. Emotionally draining. No ones safe

You’re in an app full of men and women. You have to find a way to stand out, regardless of gender. Before even interacting with someone you can write a description about yourself and take pictures doing interesting things. It sets you apart from others. But if you’re going to assume everyone is the same there’s no hope for you. And not everyone is going to spell out for you exactly what they need. You have to seem confident before you interact with them

You’re proving my point lol

Physical standards? If that means you don’t take care of yourself, then of course it says something about you. Otherwise I don’t think all women strive for whatever you think we like, just someone who looks like they put in an effort on themselves

If you believe every woman is going is doing the exact same thing I think is a problem of its own lol. Not everyone wants some dude with his shirt off or that take gym pics. People just want someone that’s emotionally competent and confident. If you have those you’re better off than the 10‘s you’re talking about. Otherwise you sound like you just want to keep believing what you do and be bitter