We’ve all been there. You're texting with a stunning 9/10 blonde, and suddenly, the conversation goes silent. You have no idea what to say next, and just like that, your chance for a date or anything else disappears.

After this lesson, you’ll always know what to say and never have to worry about "awkward silences" again.

Why Conversations Die

Mindset

When you're with friends, conversations rarely go silent. You always have something to say, and things flow naturally. But why does it suddenly become difficult when talking to a girl?

Often, it's not that we don’t know what to say, but we overthink whether what we say is "good enough." This makes us freeze. The real reason is that you see the girl as more valuable than yourself (which is not true). When you chat with a "5/10," do you get stuck? No! You don’t care whether what you say is good enough because you aren’t trying to impress her.

The biggest reason conversations with women die is that, consciously or unconsciously, you are trying to sell yourself because you see her as more valuable.

To fix this, let go of the idea that she’s better or more valuable than you. You don’t even know her! Besides her looks, what does she offer? Often, not much. There are plenty of beautiful women out there, so she’s not that special. Don’t be afraid of losing her because you say something dumb.

When you stop trying to sell yourself and just be carefree, you’ll notice that conversations flow naturally, and women enjoy talking to you!

Closed Questions

Another reason conversations fall flat is closed-ended questions. These are questions that can be answered with just a “yes” or “no,” making it impossible to dive deeper into topics.

What not to do:

• You: Do you do sports?
• Her: Yes.

What to do instead:

• You: What sport do you enjoy doing?
• Her: I love going to the gym because…

Conversation Techniques to Keep the Chat Going

Always Have Something to Say

The best way to always have something to say and keep a conversation going forever is simple: Pick one word from the previous sentence and talk about it. Tell something about that word or ask a follow-up question related to it.

Example:

• You: What fun things did you do today?
• Her: I went to the city.
• You: Oh cool! What did you get in the city?
• Her: A gift for a birthday party.
• You: What kind of gift?
• Her: A DIY sushi kit. I love eating sushi.
• You: Me too! Let’s go for sushi together this Friday. I’ll pick you up at 6 PM.
• Her: Sounds great! See you Friday :)

Talk About Your Passion

Your passion is one of the best things to talk about with a woman. First, you can talk endlessly about it because you love it and know a lot about it. Plus, women find it attractive when a guy cares deeply about something. Passion is contagious.

Tell a Story

Women love stories. Share a story that triggers emotions, like something funny or embarrassing that’s happened to you.

When telling a story, include the following points:

• Create a picture in their mind. Describe how everything looked, how the sun was shining, etc.
• Describe sounds you heard and how they made you feel.
• Talk about your emotions during the experience.

10 Questions to Keep a Conversation Going

1. What was the most fun thing you did this week/year?
2. Which country would you love to visit, and why?
3. What’s your biggest fear?
4. What do you absolutely NOT want to do before you die?
5. What did you want to be when you were little?
6. What’s your idea of a perfect date?
7. What’s your favorite way to relax?
8. What’s your favorite picture in your phone?
9. What’s the best advice you’ve ever received?
10. What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?

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