3 months ago, I pulled off a ONS double header with this smoke show spinner blonde 12 years younger than me. I’m 44. We lived in other states. I posted about it back in May.

Below is a report of how I met up with her again and am establishing her as a rotation chick. Hope it passes on some helpful insight in retaining a chick so you can build that booty call book. I guess this is in the intermediate/advanced level since you first need to get a chick sprung on you.

I wasn’t sure if I would see her again. She was married and I was just a fling. You ever bang a chick you had deep chemistry with so the sex was unreal? Can’t get her outta your head no matter how many other chicks you bang? That is this girl.

My slutdar was going off one random afternoon last week so I texted her (my first text in 3 months). “Hey so when is the next episode of the Brady Brunch!” (This was an inside joke). I didn’t expect a response.

15 minutes later she responded that she was at some airport catching her connection on her way to visit a friend and party, and how crazy it was I was texting her right then, and that I should have texted two weeks ago because she would have come to see me instead! Tells me she filed for divorce. FOMO starts building lol.

We started flirting which led to sexting what we wanted to do to eachother. She texts me how horny she is and is about to take off and will text me later. An hourish later she texts me she landed. I tried to tease that she should ditch her friend and fly to me. She laughs maybe she will or maybe she will just visit me in a couple months blah blah. Tells me she doubts she gonna meet anyone there that is as good as me blah blah.

Lesson: One thing I know about chicks, is they may want to do something, but suck at following through to do it. They want a man to do that for them.

So I’m now thinking, do I go see her? 11 hour drive, 700 miles away.

“You would drive 11 hours for some pussy?” She asks.

Me: “Hell yes”

Her: heart emoji

Lesson: Ok so I’m showing a little too much excitement here but if she has enough attraction it doesn’t matter as much to show you are attracted to her but you still want to be aware and not over do it. Try to be a little less excited/interested in her if you can. Obv that is hard to do here since I am the one driving all that way, and that alone is can be construed as too eager. Definitely playing with fire.

So we text through the night, she is being all coy.

Lesson: Chicks like to hold back their interest to test you. She may really want me to come, but she is not gonna say it. She says instead “my friend doesn’t mind if I leave her to see you, but that’s a long drive for you.” You have to have the confidence to know your the shit and they want you despite the mixed signals they give that make you second guess yourself. Know that they want to be part of your world. That is part of frame control.

Meanwhile I’m over here planning this trip. This is happening boys! I find some crazy 5 star hotel city view bear skin rug sex suite. I text her the pics and say “Fri & Sat night?” She replies “I’m so down!” I book the room. We joke that this is going to be our Sluttiversary.

Lesson: Always conjur up some kind of role playing fantasy to frame your date (or instaweekend date in this case). I do this 100% of the time with girls. I’ll even layer multiple fantasy narratives worth the same chick. Builds rapport and sexual tension. Chicks view their life through a story line, so just view this as part of her ongoing erotic novel in her head and write the next chapter for her.

Fast forward, I take Friday off of work, I drive out there while she is texting me all these sexy pics, she gets their before me. I finally get to the room, open the door, and there she is in a little black mini skirt smiling devilishly.

We get it on like Donkey Kong for rest of weekend all over that ratchety suite. Seek & Destroy mission. Just as good as before. Sleeping, eating, and fucking for 2 days.

On the last night, we are up on this rooftop fancy lounge, drinking and eating appetizers, the sun is setting and the moon is rising, we are kissing in deep embrace, and she says to me “Sluttiverssaries aren’t supposed to be this romantic.” I say to her “don’t fall in love.”

This is a lesson I am still figuring out. Passion and lust with a girl you are just fucking (especially if she is really hot) can easily get you too sprung on her so that she ultimately loses attraction. So you have to keep your interest level slightly held back and not appear like you are sitting there salivating over this chick. Then you have to maintain this frame over the duration of your slutlationship. It’s hard because you start to develop feelings and she does too. In this case, both of us are divorcees committed to being sluts and we talk openly about it, including our intentions, not wanting to marry again, etc so there is no confusion about what this is. Open communication with your chicks is very healthy.

By the morning of check out, we are both destroyed. Yet manage to go a couple more rounds.

Jimmy is running on fumes. 6-7 sessions in two days. Long sessions. Next time more Cialis towards the end when it’s a non stop sexatholon lol.

Lesson: consider the logistics and preparation for having a weekend of sex with a horny chick. Eat and drink and have enough cialis (totally optional and talk to your doc about ED pills) to go the distance. For me ED pills help me fuck like a champ and I can go an hour or more rockhard without cumming. I did pretty good here but should have eaten more as well to prevent exhaustion lol.

She was spent too. Both of us were struggling by last day lol. Says she came 100 times. I don’t believe her I say maybe more like 50 and she says no way more.

We decide to do Slutverssaries every few months. We’ll pick cool locations and fuck in every state. Knowing we have to say goodbye, and our time together is just a fantasy escape, we both start to pull back emotionally from eachother and start transitioning into our mental realities. She gotta go back to her family. I gotta go deal with explaining to a girl I’m dating why I ghosted her all weekend.

Lesson: manage your emotions with a rotation chick. They aren’t there for love. Don’t get simpy.

I texted her later that day just before her flight took off to plant the seed of our next rendezvous on a Bahamas cruise. But takeaway is I am not going to text her for at least 8 weeks.

Lesson: Not that it has to be that long of course, but build some separation into your relationship with chicks. Distance builds sexual tension. I have the mindset that maybe I’ll never see her again. Life gets in the way and have to always be unattached to outcomes and just enjoy the experiences you do have and keep seeking new ones.