I have been a on tear like no other time. 4 week streak of pulling chicks. Last night I pulled an absolute smoke show 10 years younger than me with fake tits from bar to her hotel room. And she was married.

I have always been hit or miss with pick up and game was pretty much non existent. Recovering introvert. Been educating and practicing a lot of last 10 months since my seperation. Recently hit a new level in game and is paying off. Something clicked where I’m finally getting consistent results. Will go over some keys to success from last night (apologies for the long post lol):

Approach - I went to meet a group of friends for happy hour (one married couple, one dude). I notice this hot chick sitting alone two stools over. Chummed it up with friends, laughed, cracked some jokes then sat down right next to her. Still talking to my friends, and talking about going to a certain place later.

I turn to ask this chick if she knew about the place we were talking about. First time she didn’t hear me cuz I did a crappy job of getting her attention so just repeated myself. Made a joke about how everyone was there and not where we were. She laughs. I’m in. Found out where she was from. Turned out I was there recently. Told a story about her hometown. Mildly interesting convo ensues. She is on vaca and I am local. Made a joke about how she is sitting here alone looking for a local boy? She laughs, and says maybe. I’m super in. Made more jokes and teases. For example, I needed to order a drink and looks like she is drinking a margarita. So I ask her is that a skinny margarita or a regular one? She didn’t know what a skinny margarita was and I made fun of her for having a regular one and she must be trying to get wild. She then played along and called it her “fat” margarita. Laughs. Just an example of a little stupid situational teasing humor that forms the backbone of the conversation throughout night.

She is super fit and I tell her there is a run going on in the morning I was thinking of doing so not sure how much I’m gonna drink tonight (This was true btw). She acted super interested in going on this run. So then I say we’ll wake up early and go together but should probably go to sleep by 1am. This did two things: planted the seed we were going to sleep and wake up together to do something and started a little fantasy scenario reinforced throughout the night.

Then introduce to my friends and make her feel part of the group. Then tell her (rather than ask if she wants to) “come with us we are going next door there is a band.” She is down and comes along. Friends were great wings and having a group like that especially with another female in it is super helpful to make the new chick feel comfortable and they go to bathroom together and shit. And the girl is helping prequalify me by telling the chick I’m aight. Plus displays social intelligence on my part. Prequalification principle of “this guy must not be a creep because he has girl and guy friends.” All good stuff.

I got her number after she said yes to bar crawling with us but before we left the first venue. I did this by giving her my phone and telling her to put her number in my phone so we have each others numbers in case one of us needs to be rescued later in the night. A humorous way to do it.

Also, there are plenty of times I see smoking hot chicks and figure they are out of my league and don’t approach. This one could easily have been another missed opportunity since I thought she was 25. But I know is so important to just say something. The opener doesn’t matter that much as long as it’s not something weird and cringey. Situational openers are great at bars. If the chick wants to talk to you she will. If this chick didn’t want to talk I would have just moved on, but you never know if she is into unless you talk to her first. Turned out she was not only on vacation, she ditched kids with grandparents and alone in a hotel room on the beach, in an unhappy marriage, now sitting at a bar as sun goes down, eating dinner, looking for a good time, and then I enter. Perfect timing and logistics.

Escalation - We are at the next venue with the band. Doing rounds of shots at a table and having a good time. I start increasing the physical contact- touches on thigh and lower back during conversation. I really believe that those two places do something to chicks and help build the sexual tension. Also helps in bars cuz they are loud as an excuse to lean in close to talk and listen while putting your hand on her lower back or thigh. She reciprocates and is doing the same kind of physical touch to me. Now I’m thinking to get her on the dance floor to escalate. Rather than asking her if she wants to dance, I just grab her hand and gently pull her to the dance floor without saying anything. She fucking loved that. Danced nice and close and hands all over eachother. Now I know it’s on. Lol. She keeps bringing up the going on a run in the morning so we can’t drink that much. I put her in charge of making sure we are drinking enough water and we kept affirming that we are waking up at 6 to go on this run.

Another fantasy scenario thing I did that was effective was making a whole scenario about her running away from her husband so we can form the Brady bunch (we both had kids) but we need to have one more kid to have 6 and later we can go practice at the hotel room getting her another kid. She loved this fantasy and kept bringing it up all night. Kind of a little roleplay technique I guess. I usually try to do something like that on instadates so it seems more magical. Like one time with a different chick, I made up a scenario where we were on our honeymoon, and she loved that one too. I have done fantasy/scenario shit in literally every successful pull and think it is an under talked about and very effective technique.

I also gave her a cute little nickname early on based on our convo, and kept calling her my babie babe. She loved that. Nicknames really help create the illusion of familiarity along the lines of acting like you are already banging them.

Then back and forth a little bit between table and dance floor over next while. Sometimes group dance, sometimes me and her. Keeping the flirtation in the conversation, close physical contact, hand holding, and keeping that going along with taking little breaks to chat with the group overall and not totally isolate ourselves is what I’m focusing on in here. Talking real close to each others faces increases that tension. She has one of my legs between her thighs squeezing it hard. I tell her what good leg strength she has must be all the cross fit. She gave me the look. You know what I’m talking about. It’s that mischievous smile look when they are down for you. I lean in for kiss and we are making out at the table. Then we go and make out on the dance floor. Then I start telling her what I’m gonna do to her back at her hotel room. She is all about it.

Close- We go to one more bar after that and I pretty much ditch my friends at this point cuz I’m about to pull. Got Rachet at the bar to where she was begging to go. She was super into the dirty talk. Like she was straight primed from the buildup all night. I mean I feel like all chicks are straight freaks that wannabe let out. That is why I am super flirtatious and use a lot sexual innuendos through the set. They love that shit once they have given you the into talk to them and then it builds the sexual tension which is critical. She told me she liked bad boys and that is why she liked me. Once she brought up that I’m a bad boy, I played into it with dirty talk. “Oh so you want to be bad baby?” as you feel them up. She loved that shit.

So then pull her back to hotel room, walking distance. Spent night. Found out it was her first one night stand ever. We did wake up at 6am to go on the run but decided nah, and just went a round 2 instead. I left around 9am. Lol.

Hope this little field report helps. You just gotta be manly- take charge, lead her through crowds, lead the group at times; funny- free association, no serious topics; flirtatious- sexualize every opportunity, get close man to woman; escalate- quick touches to hands on thighs and lower back, to stroking, to kissing, to full on make out and copping a feel, to sex.

Edit: want re-emphasize that a ONS is a fantasy for not only you but the chick. Don’t underestimate how horny chicks are. Once they go on an instadate or go off with you, they are fully onboard the fantasy train. They will play coy and hard to get and throw up objections and shit tests, but that is just to see how you will react and they want you to stay calm and manly on seducing them throughout the night and making that fantasy come true. How you deal with it depends on her logistics (is she with a group of friends and doesn’t want to be looked at as a slut? Is she conservative and “not like that.” In my case, I had her all to myself and she was giving the signals, so I was able to ramp up the dirty talk way before the pull.) Since it is a fantasy, playing into that by adding this comedic slightly ridiculous scenarios like I mentioned above work extremely well because they are congruent with the overall situation being a fantasy.

Edit 2: while this was a wildly successful pull, there are always things that I could have done better. The one thing I could have improved was after sex and being a little too simpy with complementing her body and shit. She was so fucking hot I couldn’t help it, but I feel like that detracted from how attracted she was so if I wanted to make her a rotation chick (moot since she is married) that would have possibly fucked it up. She, like all hot chicks, had a big ego. They know how hot they are and get dick thrown at them 24/7. The night before, she kept talking about how hot her body was and that guys fall in love with her and how obsessed her husband was with her. So if I play into that reaffirming how hot she is, and what am I gonna do without this pussy, etc like I did- that was putting me into that simp/ husband category. She even made this comment like “see you are falling in love with me like they all do.” I did not do any of that during the set, not one compliment on her looks and that was key, this is all the morning after. So anyways, try not to compliment their looks and inflate their ego like most guys do. Again I was just in shock and awe I’m with this smoke show and having a good time. But I could have ruined my chances if she was rotation material.

Also I probably talked too much detail about my divorce when she asked me in the morning. That is a tricky subject matter in general with married and divorced women cuz it easily makes you look like their ex-husband stbx. Too much detail removes the mystery aura around you which is important to keep. Still figuring out how to approach that but in general just not going into the details is best I think. They can know you are divorced, how many kids, but any further details seems to detract rather than help so I try to avoid yet failed here. You know what she told me tho. The reason she wants to divorce her husband is so she can be free to be a slut. That should tell you how horny women are and what they are about lol.

LAST EDIT: ok I may have overly harsh with myself on the above cuz she hit me up again and we went a round 2 🤣. I could write a whole post on the texting. Probably the last night but she has one more day here gonna try for the hat trick lol.