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I've gotten over 30 womens numbers in the past 6 months and they have all flaked. Many by the time I text "Hi/Hola". What am I doing wrong?
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At one point I had 7 dates lined up within a week. I'm not trying to be w player. It doesn't even look like I could if I wanted. I'm just aware of how finicky women can be.

By the end of the week they all flaked one after another.

Am I being ungrateful after getting a number and going for more? Should I just keep spamming approaches to see which women stick?

Or is this karma telling me I'm getting too ahead of myself and I should just be grateful with the one I get and see how this goes first? [Backstory] Don't have to read I no longer have rizz due to being socially isolated for years but I think Im better at socializing with women. Flirting, playfully teasing or talking shit (which I just didn't get before) everything minus the charisma (imo the most important part).

I'm assuming this is an inner game thing and something about my vibe or spirit gives off a bad feeling later over the phone.

I went through a period of 6 long years with no friends and being out of school from 19-23. I feel like I missed out on the most important parts of developing myself during that time and wonder if my ability to socialize was straight up damaged.

I'm no wondering if they can sense that๐Ÿ˜…

Not sure what I'm doing wrong or if I just AM wrong.

If they can all feel comfortable with talking to me and giving me their numbers and I'm a complete stranger I'm not sure how thos many women would change their mind by the time I either send the first text or a day or two before our dates.

It's probably 35 by now๐Ÿฅถ

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