I personally don’t have many confidence issues or worries about my attractiveness or worth (in theory at least, in practice I have yet to see but I’ll get there when I get there). But my main issue is just singling out someone to approach.

Less so that I’m picky and more suffering from an abundance of choice. Tbh any woman looks attractive to me if I think about it for a second or two, so trying to find someone to settle on and approach is difficult. That plus the minor worry that the woman will be rather off put by an approach, but that’s more secondary than anything.

Does the cold open advice apply here, in that just go for it and don’t overthink it? Or are there any tips for trying to sort out personal preferences or see who might be interested?