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The Benefits of Approaching Consistently - 2 Dates in a Week
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I wanted to share with you my recent experience with daygame and the impact that consistency can have. For a while, I've been doing daygame on and off, approaching when I felt like it or when I had the time.

Two weeks ago, I decided to change that and commit to a goal of approaching 25 sets per week, rain or shine. To be honest, I was nervous about the commitment and wasn't sure if I would be able to keep it up. But I reminded myself of the benefits of consistency and how it can help me improve my skills and increase my chances of meeting someone I like.

So I started approaching, every day, keeping track of my sets and noting down anything I learned or could improve. It was challenging at times, but I soon began to notice some small wins - more engagement, longer conversations, and a greater sense of confidence. Ofcourse I got more numbers and had multiple girls responding well over texting, which also helped with me not overthinking if some of the girls dropped off after few texts back and forth.

And then, the big win came - I got two dates in a single week, both with girls I felt a genuine connection with. I do believe that going out consistently and doing 25 sets per week played a big part. By pushing myself to keep going out, even when I wasn't feeling it, I was able to expand my opportunities, meet more people, and increase my chances of finding a match.

Now, I'm not saying that everyone needs to approach 25 sets per week or that it's a magic formula for success. But I do believe that consistency in approaching is important, not just for getting dates but for improving yourself as a person. When you commit to a goal and work hard towards it, you build resilience, discipline, and self-awareness, all of which can help you in many other areas of life.

So my advice to anyone who's struggling with daygame or dating in general is to focus on being consistent. Set a goal that's challenging but achievable, and work towards it, step by step. Don't be too hard on yourself if you miss a day or a set, but don't give up either. Remember that progress takes time and effort, but it's worth it in the end.

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