On Thursday night I quite spontaneously went to the gym with with girl. That “date” led to us getting food, good conversation, and us making out in her car. Probably could’ve escalated to sex but logistics were not in my favor that night.

Since then we’ve been texting through out the day but I’ve been trying to coordinate a next real date for us since we both have busy schedules that done align, it’s hard.

As it’s been nearing a week with no real time for a next date (I got sick this week how lovely) until mid next week or the week after. I elected to stop texting her. The conversation has been going fine with banter, flirting, and intellectual conversation. However, I don’t want to become a texting buddy. She knows my intentions with her and is down for the same.

Should I just ping her every couple days? Or wait until I can get a date set? Or is texting her everyday, a couple times a day just fine?