I am married with children (M), my boss (F) is also married with children. She is younger than me, I am 42 and she is 35. I’ve known her since she was a college student because her family owns the company. Not only is she stunningly beautiful but she’s actually a really beautiful person on the inside, and you don’t always get that with people who are raised in wealth. She is a very kind person and extends that kindness to me quite often, and she also talks to me on a social level without breaking the boss/employee boundaries, but we talk about family stuff and other things like that. I do not socialize with her outside the office or anything like that but my feelings towards her are very sexual but they are also romantic. I know it’s a pipe dream even if neither one of us was married, I am the help, but I have always wanted her both sexually and intellectually. The more I see her grow as an adult and as a leader the more attracted to her I am. It also makes it even sexier to me that she has authority over me. I will never act on it, whether or not I would ever be willing to cheat on my wife I would not be stupid enough to make a pass at the boss because that’s career suicide, but those feelings are there.