Good evening,

Me:

Physically, I’m 28. I’m 6ft1 and about 135 pounds. Fairly gender fluid, I identify as non-binary and prefer they/them pronouns but I am also okay if you struggle with that. I enjoy wearing punk/rock/gothic styles. Or like, warm clothing cuz I am always cold. I have hazel eyes/hair. I have a slender/fit build. I also have a photo of what I look like naked on my profile if you wish to see. I am pansexual, which means, I am attracted to people for who they are and NOT their genitals aka, all genders.

I am a switch which means I like to be dominant as well as submissive equally…however, I am looking to explore my submissive side going into this. I am STD free and HIV Negative as of Sept 2022. Also fully vaccinated plus the monkeypox vax. I am all about safe sex and I will also take another STD and HIV test before/ after we have sex. If we both decide to go bareback we would need built trust first. I am fully vaccinated. I rent a studio on my own meaning I can host, have transportation and a steady job. I work during the day (except for today!) so I am available in the evenings or every other weekend as I have them off.

In my spare time my hobbies are fairly geeky with the exception of hiking, writing poems, traveling (not much these days) and photography.

I am non-monogamous with a trans (ftm) masc partner who is very supportive in me finding another partner or a couple to explore this with. You may confirm that before we do anything via in person, I can bring them to meet you or have you talk to them over the phone.

Why? I am looking to explore my feminine side more and also my submissive side. I know I have a lot to give and would like to put that energy into pleasing others. I want someone (or a couple) to be willing to act as both friend and sexual play partner. I want to get better at pleasing you, learning your body, while still being able to hangout nonsexually. Basically I would like to have fun with others while learning on the way. My goal is to have this be a fun and positive experience for everybody involved.

Ideally looking for:

Someone who might also be bisexual or pansexual. Straight people are also totally welcome, I just seem to vibe better when everyone is open to all genders. Someone patient, ideally older or my age, enjoys receiving oral cuz I love giving it, wants to dress me up, non-judgmental, caring, emotionally present/expressive, dominant and or more assertive, genuine, blunt, honest/truthful, hygienic, has a sense of humor/silly (or can be at times), into geeky things (this would be a plus but not a dealbreaker ), okay with taking it slow at times, enjoys kissing, enjoys teaching, encourages or is okay with my pansexuality, enjoys physical touch, has at least one day a week/time to explore, has a kinky mind, is STD free, HIV negative, COVID-19 vaccinatedx3 and lastly, someone who has experience.

I have a strong interest in gentle femdom if anyone is into exploring that I am eager to see how that would go.

I don’t care how older you are, what race you are, about your body type, or about the color of skin you have. I don’t care if you are smooth, trimmed or hairy pubic hair wise. I don’t care about where you are from, your accent, past, stretch marks, acne, wrinkles, scars, how fat and or skinny you are. All I really care about is your personality!

I am not interested in cheaters, racists and or anyone hateful towards another for the way they look or talk.

If you think this sounds like something you would like to try, let me know with a message. I would like to talk online for a few hours before meeting in person and I will never ask for “nudes” or to see you naked. You share what you are comfortable with.