Hello everyone! I’m a 21 yr old college student in a long term relationship (he’s aware of me doing this). I’m shy, insecure but working on it, a driven person and very curious. I’ve been interested in bdsm for years but have had very little opportunities to actually explore it.
What I’m searching for: I would love to find a woman who lives near me who is between 21-40 to explore bdsm and my sexuality with. I’m willing to go older but not younger. I know I am bisexual, but have also had very little opportunities to explore that part of myself. I have several kinks I’d love to explore: breath play, cnc, impact play, pain play (if you have a sadistic side that’s wonderful), overstimulation, forced orgasms, orgasm denial, humiliation, degradation and more. I’m very open minded and would love to be introduced to other kinks as well. I thrive with rules/guidance and structure. I do have a bratty side so if you put up with that, that’s a bonus ☺️. I hope you can be creative with punishments as I enjoy pain and physical punishments tend to not be as effective. Id want this to be a relationship that supports bdsm being more incorporated in my lifestyle, and more than just in the bedroom.
I believe these dynamics take time and trust, I’d want to take however long it takes to get to know each-other and discuss boundaries and desires in depth. Consent and safety are a top priority (and go both ways), if that isn’t mutual priority of yours please don’t bother messaging me. Let’s start with a chat and we can move on to Snapchat if all goes well. Im open to phone calls/video call/ in person to talk as well :).
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