As a long time swinger I have had 3 swinging partners in my life

My first was a busty gothic red head vampire type girl we met online and we hit it off spent or holidays together but it was a very long distance relationship and we enjoyed swinging but swinging and only spending 6 weeks a year together did not work well so that came to a end quickly and with no real regrets on ether end of the relationship

Nest was my longest swinging partner we spent 10 years together started as a sex meet me and her and her boyfriend we spent days talking to each other after in short she left him and we moved in together and we started holding monthly swinging parties for around 8 years these were free fun and some worked out great some did not but we always had a great time

But in time she was looking to be pushed more in BDSM and left me for guy she thought would do that and that was hard to take at the for time me I was and am in love with her she is my part time swinging partner now when she back from ill health

My 3rd partner was large big busty BBW we held swinging parties on and off for 2 years but she wanted out of the scene as she said had changed to much and is now happily married and doing well in her vanilla life

The truth if your a couple is you have to be 100% secure in your relationship and honest with each other those are a must

I am now a more secure person in my own skin don't be downhearted by people saying no thanks to you but revel in the ones that say yes and enjoy every moment