Hey there, I'm Rico, and that's the name I prefer to go by, even if you know my real one! I'm not the best at making personal ads, so please bear with me.

I'm a 240-ish pound black male with a bear-like build, perfect for those cold nights and cuddles. I'm in search of a lovely lady for a long-term IRL relationship or partnership. Currently residing in San Antonio, TX. I should also mention that I have two amazing kids.

I'm a service Dom (used to be a sub but switched after some unwanted experiences). If you want me to consider submitting to you, you'll have to earn it from my dominant side first. It's essential that you're 420-friendly.

Socially awkward? That's me! But if you can keep a conversation going, that's a major bonus. I started exploring the kink community a year ago, and I'd love a partner to learn and try new kinks together.

ADHD? Yep, I've got it – undiagnosed but pretty sure. My mind is always racing, and I use 420 to slow it down a bit. You don't need to partake, just be cool with it.

Some of my experiences include wax play, sensual massages, rough play, impact play (giving and receiving), degradation (with the right person), bondage (still practicing), and rope play (learning). I'm a bit of a flirt, but that's just how I show interest in someone.

Huge sci-fi nerd here. I love audiobooks, especially B.V. Larson and Craig Alanson. Gaming used to be my thing, but I've been losing interest; maybe you can help me get back into it? I also enjoy murder mysteries, dark documentaries, and photography (just for fun).

My personality is super chill – I strive for a stress-free life, so please, no drama! If we develop a deep connection, I'll work through your issues, but give me time to like you.

To sum it up, I'm NOT looking for a quick hookup. I want a partner who can be the ass to my paddle. So if that sounds like you, let's chat and see where it goes!