Good evening, I'm going to be visiting San Diego every few months this year, and on a whim I decided to post on Reddit.

I'm 5'8, white, brown hair and eyes, glasses, quite chubby mom with a big, soft chest and a big, soft belly.

I'm in an open marriage and don't have much availability, but I'd really like to find a super compatible FWB who I can have fun times with when I'm in town.

I'd like to get to know someone a bit before jumping in bed, I'm not into ONS.

Ideally you're 35 ish, kind, consent focused, and don't take things too seriously.

If you're...

• an ENM/poly/single man who is ethical, and respectful of consent and boundaries(no cheaters/adulterers),

• near my height(5'7-5'11) ,

• somebody interested in both the friends and benefits parts of FWB,

• fragrance-free,

• up for occasional texting and sexting, but have no expectations to contact each other regularly,

• clean (daily showers, good dental hygiene, etc.),

• into bedroom activities that go for hours and hours,

• into cuddling in between rounds,

• tobacco-free, drug-free, and don't drink or smoke much (a drink or two out is fun but not a must),

• tested frequently, have been tested recently and engage in safe sexual practices,

• creative, adventurous, and friendly,

• turned on by good conversation,

• into intensity but not violence,

-strong with a husky, dad bod, or slightly chubby build,

• okay with meetups every 3-4 months, when I'm in town(usually weekends),

• familiar with lots of kinks you enjoy and you're interested in trying more; you're not shy about discussing what you do and don't enjoy,

• a pleaser who also likes to be pleased,

• someone with a big sense of humor who enjoys everything from dumb puns to high-brow humor,

• a night owl,

• able to host once we get to know each other,

• private but not secretive (I'm not into anonymous hookups),

• preferably the owner of an average-sized cock(easier to go longer and try more things),

• interested in any of these things and want someone to occasionally do them with: baking, cooking, walks, late night adventures like diners, arcades, and mini golf, fun restaurants, sci Fi, fantasy, and classic books, movies,, live music...

...then I want to chat with you and see where things go! Send me a little about yourself and some pics (dirty is okay but normal pics preferred).