TL;DR - Looking to casually/seriously date someone. Match vibes and take from there.

Probably not the greatest idea I've ever had, but pretty lost/frustrated with dating apps. So wanted to put myself out here, hoping to find someone like minded, given reddit is people who are. If not, at least hoping to get some new experiences out of this. I've met some incredible people from here, so here goes.

About me: 33 M 5'9" Indian by race, 150lbs, in decent shape (pics on profile for looksies). Have a full time job, have a small but quality friend group, but relatively new to the US and San Diego (7yrs/4yrs). I love art, in music, paintings, movies, video games, and performance. I enjoy painting, cooking(vegetarian spicy, but open minded), read a lot, play video games a bit, watch movies, go out to try new restaurants/beaches/cafes/galleries/museums/dive bars, and working out. Also enjoy nature walks, and just exploring the city and landscapes. Pretty happy, laid back, and respectful as a person. Believe in science, therapy, non religious, and liberal. I try to learn, grow and enjoy every aspect of life. Non smoker, occasional drinker, and kinda important to mention, cat dad. I'm also a bit kinky, you can ask more about that if that calls your curiosity haha.

What I'm looking for: Looking for someone who is open to start slow, be friends, but date casually and hopefully things move towards being long term as a goal. Someone intentional, consistent, and communicative.

Things that are important to me: Being healthy (mental and physical), believe in science, medicine, and being open minded. Having ambitions and goals in life. Enjoys life, and takes risks to get out of your comfort zone to try new things/experiences. Communicative, intentional and consistent towards one another. Hoping not to come across flakey/ghosts, that's the reason I'm putting this here in the first place. I prefer my paranormal on TV only. Also, someone who is in the age range of 27-38.

If this strikes a chord, and you think we may have things/interests in common, feel free to reach out. Or if you have suggestions to drop by, I'll take those too. If you don't know how to break the ice, you can start by telling me what's your favorite fruit or something that made you smile this past week.

Thank you for reading the post so far, stay hydrated and give your cute tush some love for me.