I am looking for something incredibly unique and I have more to offer than some people may feel they deserve but I am looking for the hidden gem. I am looking for the woman who feels like men are never treating her good enough and a person who has done everything they can to treat others with love and kindness. I want the shy one who has never smoked anything in her life, the 'dork' who would enjoy simple things but would appreciate being spoiled more than the average person would. I need the friend who watches every guy they meet lust after their friends but not them.  I want a woman who has maybe been worked to the bone, who is incredibly kind and patient and willing to jump head first into a complex situation.  I would want to see how things go obviously but I have spare rooms I don't need rent for, I love to go to amusement parks and a desire to travel the country-in fact I am in the searching part of getting a new motorhome so I can travel for a year or two across the country while visiting every small town I can find as we mark every state off the list of places I have been.  I do NOT want kids, and a single mother is not in the cards for me as I do not want to be tied down anymore to San Diego long term and I do not want my life to revolve around kids at this stage of my life. I have adult kids who accept everything odd and weird about me and I am hoping you do too!  I am into someone who is ok with a lot or less sex and as long as you are into or good with more other sexual things, long playing, teasing, etc maybe going both ways.  Someone who agrees they do not want kids is important for me. Non-smoker, non-vaper, all that stuff.  If you think you are too skinny, too fat or have never been 'that' girl, who cares here.  I really could care less as I am looking for a simple woman for a complex situation and for that you need to care above all else. I am not looking for a gold-digger or going for the hottest bod!  I don't care.  I have a lot to offer someone who understands I work a LOT.  I need someone who is the woman who was a little like me, shy, picked last for sports in school.  I was that "picked last" kid. I was a bit of a dork that never fit in.  I just want you to be someone who is clean, showers a couple times a day, is willing to help around the house, able to take any situation and make it shine for those outside looking in.  I am making this long-I know...but I would like to weed out the replies...

I am NOT interested in:

Bad Hygiene
Smokers
Drug users
Anyone with intense medical issues that would prevent travel and exploration
Having kids or single mothers of kids
Stuck up or rude

INTO:

I am the man who used to give my last dollar to the person who looked like the needed it more than myself.  I still now hand out money regularly and buy food and meals for people. I run to open doors for the elderly and I have complicated friendships where I am the most reliable person in everyones' life, but I have only a few people I consider real friends. I drive fast and I love as fast as I drive.  I am looking for a person who has an easy time smiling and a harder time getting upset.  Someone who is willing to explore in the bedroom without bringing "issues" and "traumas" into those spaces (I like fun and exploration). A woman who has no issue not being clingy but who will reach out when she has feelings to share. Someone who is not too tied into a current living situation as I would love a person to move in sooner than later. Also no one who is "in the end of a relationship" as I am not interested in being the plan B! I just want a shy dorky person who has amazing hygiene and is not the 'every man wants her' lady who has little personality left and could not cook a meal if her life depended on it. :) I too love to cook!