So here I am again. What am I doing here, you might ask. I consider myself someone who enjoys the company of others. I thrive when I find someone I can be myself around and bounce ideas and banter with. I fancy the company of like-minded people; this does not limit me from enjoying time with someone with a different perspective than mine. As Pocahontas once said, “But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger, you learn things you never knew, you never knew.”

So here I am, posting on a subreddit for something intimate, genuine, and substantial. Why am I posting on a subreddit that is hyper-focused on sex? Well, I guess the truth of the matter is that sex attracts people. I know this firsthand; I’ve been hypersexualized all my life due to being a trans woman. But that is not what I am seeking here, so if that is your sole purpose, then I suggest you skip my post.

A little about me, I am in my early thirties and am a proud Mexican American transwoman. I am enjoying the last months of my gap year before starting grad school in the fall out of state. I speak Spanish and Portuguese, aside from the obvious English. I’ve traveled to over 25 countries in the past seven years and studied in Costa Rica and Spain. I am single and have a small circle of friends who mostly live out of state. I enjoy tennis, pádel, long walks, spontaneous trips, cooking, baking, dining out, cannabis, reading, music festivals/concerts, performing arts and museums. I appreciate someone who is fit and cares for their physical appearance and hygiene.

I know this might be a long shot due to Reddit’s nature, but I hope that there is someone out there who has their weirdness under control and is not driven by simple pleasures. Ideally, I’d like to meet someone who doesn’t simply see me as a sexual object or someone to discover their sexuality/identity with. I expect to be treated and respected as a person, and I intend to do the same. I seek someone with whom I can share my free time, express feelings/thoughts, share laughs, and perhaps even cry, contemplate the world we live in, spirituality, the human race, art, music, etc.… I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP, BUT I AM NOT OPPOSED TO THE IDEA OF IT. I’d like to create intimacy; this being said, I do NOT want something based on physical interaction. If the vibes and attraction are there, sex will naturally develop. I DO want something mutual, consistent, and respectful. I do NOT want to be your hidden secret, nor do I care to be your first trans experience or anything of that nature. I am NOT looking for monetary compensation or for you to feel like you have to pay for everything, though it is appreciated. Ideally, I’d like to enjoy SoCal before I depart, and I think doing it with someone would be even better.

Please message me privately if any of what I blabbered about interests you and if you'd like to meet for coffee or a walk. Please include a CLEAR, CURRENT face and body pic (not nude) – attraction is a must– and a brief description of yourself and what you're looking for. Thank you for your time and interest, and I hope we can create some good memories together.

PLEASE KEEP YOUR NUDES TO YOURSELF. I DO NOT CARE HOW STRAIGHT/DL YOU ARE, NOR HOW BIG YOUR COCK IS.