i'm not very good at describing myself but i guess this will do

i'm a 25 year old guy thats looking for someone that feels like they might click with me, and maybe something more can come out of that. i'm very inexperienced so i'm not exactly sure what it is i'm looking for, but someone thats chill and friendly and possibly open to more is good. physically i'm 5'11, white, short dark brown hair and hazel eyes, and skinny/mildly fit from surfing.

i dont know what myers briggs personality test type i am, but i'm pretty introverted and quiet unless someone talks to me first, and it can take me a while to feel comfortable around new people. i have gotten better at being more confident though and i can open up and talk for hours if its about something someone's passionate about.

i have used dating apps a few years ago, but i stopped after they just ruined my confidence and self esteem for a while, total waste of time. i've also never really been with anyone before, so i'm kind of clueless on whats "expected' of guys for these kinds of things. its really only that stuff that bothers me though, i've already graduated and everything else is going great in my life.

in terms of interests i'm very much hyperfocused on a small subset of interests, mostly stuff that has to do with writing and worldbuilding, i also like to read a lot of fantasy and scifi manga, gives me a lot of interesting ideas for writing. i'm also really interested in paleoart and speculative evolution as an inspiration.

i wouldnt say i really have any preferences when it comes to a partner, aside from the basics like taking care of yourself, healthy minded, not obese (chubby and thicc is ok), and and generally being chill and nice to be around. i dont know if these are high standards but i would only expect a partner to be held to the same standards as myself.

what i'm really looking for is someone that clicks with me and i feel comfortable around, i know its a tall ask but there has to be someone that might be interested. i dont really know if i could do an LDR so anyone thats within my general area is preferable, but if you arent its ok too. i guess if i sound interesting enough just send a dm and maybe we'll click.