Sorry if this is a touchy subject that the mods or users would rather not deal with!

Of course, all of us who want a mixed genital set probably want it not to make others content, but for ourselves and our minds to be in tune with our bodies. I'm trans and if I pursue this, I'm obviously doing it for me. But I do sometimes worry about potential partners being turned off exclusively because of my genitals even as they are currently, pre-surgery, even though that hasn't happened yet. I'm nonmonogamous so even though I have a partner that is fine with it I still worry sometimes.

And I'm sliiiightly worried of this happening if I get surgery to have a vagina as well as a penis.

I feel kind of silly looking for reassurance when I know that genital boundaries are valid so it doesn't matter, that it plays no role in my decision on surgery, that salmacians aren't 'freaks' or unwanted, that people who aren't comfortable with it aren't right for me anyway, etc. etc. but... yea, I think I need reassurance :( that there are enough folks who won't be disturbed by it since it's a novel thing most people have never seen. I think it's cool but what are the odds I find someone who disagrees?