35MF here. We are exploring the lifestyle to see if it's for us and we're hoping to meet and get to know some new sex positive friends on a slow boil before jumping into the physical stuff right away. Is there any sac-area hangout or regular meetup spot we might be able to meet new friends at that isn't explicitly a playspace? We're hoping to learn about places or events where we can meet others and make connections before the possibility of "playtime" is on the table at all.

We've been to Poly Urban Studios and it really wasn't for us. They had a little area about the size of a dentist's waiting room with a water dispenser, and then the rest of the place is playrooms.

I guess what we're hoping for is a safe place to establish the "friend" part of FWB before anything else. We've been looking into Asha Urban Baths or finding the odd munch on Fet that appeals to us, but it's been slow going, so any insight would be a big help! ❤️