I don't know why it hadn't struck me in all the years I've been in the bdsm scene, but the dynamic between a sub and a Dom is very similar to that of a yoga student and teacher. While I would never abuse the teacher/student relationship in real life, bdsm is a realm of fantasies, and this is one that I'd love to realize soon!
Imagine: You'd relax on your mat to get acclimated, you'd attune to the rhythm of your breath as you warm up your spine. You'd start moving, with a calm voice guiding you through poses, some easy and some difficult, all while looking out for your safety. You'd receive praise and correction when necessary, but ample hands-on assistance either way, and you'd have strong hands to catch you if you were to lose your balance...
Of course, none of this happens in a vacuum. I am very serious about consent and limits, so we'd discuss those things beforehand (at length, too-- conversation is the best foreplay). We'd likely either have a drink in a park somewhere or otherwise meet before this happens to build trust, the cornerstone of any good relationship (bdsm and otherwise).
All that I ask is that you are in shape enough to get through a class (or however far we make it ;) even if you don't have that much experience with the practice of yoga itself. Also, you should be responsible. Will we use condoms (not negotiable), and every STD test and every Covid test I've ever taken has come back negative. Vaccinated x4
As far as my kinks go, I'm a Daddy Dom. I love giving affection when appropriate, I love spanking, toys, orgasm control/denial, facefucking, and most of all, giving oral. And not just in a "I'll go down on you real quick before penetration" kind of way. Some of my best sexual experiences have involved me giving oral and not having sex or getting head in return. I was recently described by a partner as a Servlce Top, a term that very much resonated with me. Physically, I'm 5'10", lean/athletic, lots of tattoos, a thick beard.
Let's trade pictures to make sure there's a mutual attraction, chat for a while, then maybe meet up for a drink in the park. You'll see that I'm no serial killer, we'll flirt for a while, and then hopefully get warm together.
Let me know if you're interested and Namaste!
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