I'm brand new to Sacramento and looking for new friends/partners! I moved in with my nesting partner, and she's pretty much the only person I know in this town, so I have a lot of time and love to spread around. I've been practicing kink and some form of poly for about a decade each, so you won't find drama here.

Someone recently described me as a serv(i)ce top, and I found the title appropriate. To me, it describes the way in which I like to treat my partners. I have a wealth of experience in bdsm, but few kinks that I enjoy in a vacuum. What really satisfies me most is my partner's pleasure and arousal. If they want to be spanked and choked, then I will happily do so. If not, then I have little interest in it.

Some of my most erotic experiences have been one-sided, where I've gone down on a partner, given her a mas(s)age, and gotten no 'reciprocation' in return. What I got out of it was the satisfaction of my partner's climaxes.

Some of what I've enjoyed in the past includes spanking, choking, DD/lg, slapping, restraints, using toys, consensual non-consent, anal play, degradation, humiliation, teasing, orgasm denial, forced orgasms, and probably several more things I'm forgetting. I'm willing to do a lot if my partner desires it and it doesn't encroach on one of my limits, which are few, aside from the extreme.

I'm not looking for a one night stand here. Ideally, I'd enjoy your company outside of the bedroom as well as inside of it, and we could see each other somewhat regularly, even if it's for relatively platonic activities, like hiking, yoga, cuddling up for a movie. Other interests include Marvel, DnD, playing guitar, rock climbing, and absolutely wrecking a dance floor with my killer moves. Plus, if you're queer, I might even have another lady friend or two to introduce you to for group play.

So-- how can I help you?