I prefer men over 40. I don't really have an upper limit (no such thing as too old). I'm not picky about looks and I'm sapiosexual.

I am plus size so if that's not what you're looking for, go ahead and move on to a different post

About me: I am college-educated and have my life together. I have 3 very affectionate cats. Good sense of humor and kind-natured. My dream is to become a SAHW or SAHM. I come from a country club conservative type background, not exactly rural but suburban. I was raised Catholic and while I have mostly attended protestant or non-denominational churches in my adult life, I find myself liking or disliking things on both sides. I am open to attending any church as long as it holds conservative positions on social issues. For me personally, I think it's important to rely on the Bible and basic Christian teachings whenever possible (no one is perfect). I believe in sexual morality which I define as not fornicating (yes I am waiting to have sex even though I have been married before) and not watching any kind of porn. I am hoping to meet a wholesome guy who is already aligned with that mindset or who can respect that while we are getting to know each other. I am looking to date for probably not longer than 6-12 months before eloping or having a small wedding (no long courtships that lead to nowhere for me!)

I have no kids (yes I never got pregnant in my previous marriage because we prevented it) and no contact with any of my exes. I don't think it's healthy or respectful to maintain contact with exes while you're in a relationship or married, so I need to be matched with someone who could respect that. Also, I don't really believe in being "just friends" with the opposite sex while married or in a relationship (obviously family is excluded from that). Needless to say I am old-fashioned and traditional when it comes to this stuff. My partner would be the only man I am paying attention to, so I would expect the same. Also I'm not really the type to talk about exes, but there is a reason why I have chosen not to continue being with any of mine (but there is no bad blood with any of them either).

I thought I would describe myself. I stand 5'3" and have red hair, blue eyes, and fair skin. No piercings or tattoos. I am plus size as I mentioned above. If you're looking to be a "fit couple" or post hiking selfies with someone, I'm not your girl lol. I don't really have much interest in that stuff and I'm not interested in men who would not be able to love and support me at my natural (current) size. I'm not super obsessed with things like botox, heavy makeup, fake nails, or extreme fashion trends. If you're wanting that "plastic" look I'm probably not for you. I like having a more natural appearance.

Distance is not an issue as long as you're able to put some time and effort into traveling before marriage. I can relocate but ideally would like to stay within a 3-hour drive from where I am now (I can explain further).

BTW, if you have anything negative or rude to say, please just block me and keep it to yourself. Yes, I have heard it all. If you're not interested in the post just move on! We can agree to disagree.

If you're seriously interested in marriage and the post resonates, go ahead and DM!

Edit: I'm not judgmental about the other person's religion. I am open to people who aren't religious or who are a different religion, as long as they have very conservative, traditional values. I felt the need to clarify that.

Edit 2: I am not interested in BDSM or kink. I would say probably 90% of kinks and fetishes I would not be able to accommodate even in the context of marriage. (I know some are mostly innocent but I don't care for anything gross, extreme, or degrading). I'm not kink-shaming but I'm not for you.

Edit 3: Feel free to share this with anyone you know on or off reddit if you feel that I might be a match for that person. Or you can just drop me their contact info in a DM if you want.