I'm a 27 year old guy. I've had one girlfriend and we dated from ages 20 to 25. We broke up because she wanted to move back home, but I couldn't give up the job I had here. Anyway, I'm ready to get back in the dating game.

Without going into too much detail, my girlfriend had a medical issue preventing her from having PIV sex. I loved her, so it wasn't a deal breaker for me and she was more than happy to do non-PIV stuff. She actually had a much higher sex drive than me.

All that being said I feel very insecure about telling people ive never had actual sex at my age. It feels like I'm too old and women in the dating scene will judge me. It's even worse if they find out i was in a long term relationship because it makes me feel like I have to explain it. Any advice here? Stop being whiny and people won't care? Lie and say I've done it before? Toaster in the bathtub?