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Hey guys. So I'm planning to write my own novel in the xianxia genre. While not initially planned, I do have some ideas for some harem-esque relationships. As far as I understand, the common sentiment is that harem stories are seldom any good because they are more wish fulfillment than anything else. Some even promote sexualized violence against women and try to justify it with some wonder drug.
Anyway, back to my question: Would a xianxia story with a harem relationship be more acceptable if the author has experience in those relationships?
Would the experience of being in multiple relationships yourself help inspire you as a romance writer and especially for multiple relationship stories? Probably. But I’d probably find using that in your marketing a bit off putting.
Be upfront about your intentions with real life partners so they don’t feel used. If you’re not inclined towards polyamory, you’re better off interviewing people than trying to force it.
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