I don't think most people who post here ever dreamt that they would be here seeking the arms of another person while still being in a relationship. And yet, here we are, and you're reading this post and seeing what I have to say.

From the outside this does seem like a selfish proposition, but reality and perception do not always match. One can give energy and not have it reciprocated, and that is where I am. I want someone who will take my energy and will give me energy back. Who will make me feel desired in ways that I haven't been in a long time, and I will reciprocate the feelings as well.

There is a lot I miss, and a lot to miss out on because of my relationship. So, I am looking for something stable, a woman who understands the situation and may be in the same as I am. The most important part is that you're actually in my city. In the list I've had wonderful conversations with women from all parts of the country, but I'm not here for a pen pal, I want the physical interactions I do desire and are neglected to be given me.

I am a genuine person, and for the most part, I am fairly honest and a rule follower. So this is territory that I tread lightly and not without a great amount of thought and care. I would expect the same from any AP.

If you're interested, please message me with your ASL, and favorite season of the year.