My Gf tells me she “hooked up” with a guy she works with before we met. She tells me that they met at happy hour ended up getting a hotel where he couldnt perform and rushed out of the room. Left her there. She wanted to try again so she set up many meets and he would flake she said. They did mess around at work and they did go to many happy hours together and lunches she confirmed. Well the relationship which she says wasnt a relationship went on for 2 1/2 years until we met. She said they didn’t date though. This guys is “playa from the Himalayas” at work and been with several women there. Which my gf was well aware of. What is the likely hood that she is being honest about this? She said she’s very attracted to him and he was very attracted to to her. I read emails and know this is true. How and why would they not make it happen? They still work together btw.