So last night I had a third date with a guy. We get along with great and honestly have an amazing vibe together. However, we tried to have sex (first time with this person), and he couldn’t get hard.

I told him it was fine, that it happens, and that we don’t need to do anything right away… however he felt really bad, saying it’s because he’s nervous / stressed.

Then this morning we tried again, and getting an erection wasn’t the problem, we just couldn’t find a position that worked for the both of us. He was still feeling embarrassed from the night before, so the fact we weren’t getting it right again this morning was really effecting him.

All of that to say I really enjoy spending time with him, and I’m scared that our poor sexual interaction might ruin it / make him feel uncomfortable seeing me again… I’m just not sure what I should tell him to make him understand it’s okay, and that I want to keep spending time with him