No idea what to.write or.even say. Been in a open relationship for a while now and I hoped it would get easier but unfortunately it hasn't.

We hit a very rough patch in our marriage when things started going wrong in the bedroom. Multiple factors at play with me suffering severe early finishing and going soft issues. At the same time my wife was really getting into her stride in terms of her sexualality and wanting to be more adventurous and have wilder experiences. Lots of rough times which eventually ended in the solution for her to find "friends"

Not ideal but after my issues in the bedroom since I turned 30 and my wife's incredibly high sex drive it became the best way forward for us.

No idea where this posy is going to be honest. Suppose a conversation about it.

Edit - just to add away from this our relationship is fantastic and never been better.