I (21 M) have developed feelings for my friend (21 F). We’ve been friends for a long time and she’s had a BF the whole time. Even though she’s told me lots of problems in her relationship, I get along fine with her BF. I’ve dated a few people since meeting my friend so it’s not like I’ve been after her the whole time. But over the years we’ve gotten closer and lately it’s turned into romantic feelings, on my end anyway. I do believe we’d be perfect together she’d be better off with me than her current BF. But that’s also not my decision to make. I’d never make her choose between me and him, and I love having her friendship, but it also hurts to be around her with these feelings bottled up inside. I’ve tried moving in and finding someone else but it hasn’t worked. Should I tell her how I feel and risk losing her completely? Should I keep going and ignore my feelings? Should I fake my death and move to a remote island? What should I do?

TL:DR- I have feelings for my friend who’s in a long term relationship and I don’t know what to do