My boyfriend (M21) and I (F20) have been dating for 7 months and the first 6 were so magic. We get on like a house on fire, we love each other’s families, and spent all out time together. But I think that’s where we went wrong. I moved cities to be with him and was so wrapped up in the early-relationship-love-buzz that I totally neglected all other parts of my life that I need to be establishing in a new town, life friends and hobbies. Naturally this took a toll on us and now it’s hit a boiling point. He got overwhelmed and we both feel like we lost our personalities to the relationship. Last night (4 days after we moved in together) we hit a boiling point and finally talked about how we felt. No decision has been made yet about where we go from there but we’ve admitted our failures.

I’m giving him a couple nights on his own to think. But I’m feeling so sad and lonely. I don’t want him to go.

Anyone out there had a similar experience? We’re you able to fix it?

Really needing some love and re-assurance

TL;DR: Has anyone ever healed a toxic relationship? Are they worth hanging on to?