so I am a 31M at a good position in my life, Have a job.I am in no way a well off rich guy but I am independent and have a job, car, regularly work out and a trying to start dating as I feel like I am at that stage in my life. when I am on these dating apps I see that no women ever swipes right on me ( maybe its because of my pics....most of the pics on tinder/bumble are super high quality or filtered). I do get some occasional swipes but most of them are people that I do not like back . long short short only Fat/ugly chicks swipe right and they to ghost or dont reply back.... this is a big issue with online dating. but anyway my concern is, is it wrong of me to desire a particular traits in a women ? like Just like a women feels likes she deserves a great guy with great sense of humor, who pays the bills, has a job, etc, etc.. cant I have my own requirements like I need a decent looking lady, no tats, non smoker... doesnt have kids... I feel like this way of life is failing us. what should i do settle or wait, P.S... I started noticing the negative effects of online dating and have noticed that I am becoming a negative person with all the BS thats out there... and double standards...how do I stay positive...

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**TL;DR;** : what should I do ?