There are times when you get upset with your partner, and it is normal. But for me and my girlfriend, it is a tiring scenario. When we are not okay, we get too many disagreements. There are times where we apologize immediately. But almost all the time, she would say "I am tired." She always gets tired when we are not okay. It is okay. But is always so painful because no matter what I do, she gets tired when we are not okay.

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Sometimes I wonder, should I stay? Down the road of a lifetime together, there would so many disagreements and times where we would get upset at each other. And during those times, she would always get tired. Thus, I will also get tired and hurt.

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If you were me, how would you feel and react? I am really sad right now. I get so sad whenever hear how tired she is, even with small disagreements.

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tl,dr: I am trying so hard. But why is she always tired? I know it is okay, but can't we just hope to fix things instead of getting tired every time?