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The car is just under his name. The house is under my name only and is paid for, thank God.
Update: Your overwhelming support opened my eyes, if just a little. I asked him to leave this morning. Told him to take a few days to find a place and to let me know once he’s ready to pack up so we can both sit down with the boys and let them know. Then I told him to take out the trash bc it was pick up day and I took the boys to school. Regarding the other woman’s situation, I realize that it was shitty of me to agree to the premise. But the moment he told me who she was I was suspicious. So in a way I don’t think I actually believed that she was a lesbian or doing it just for the car. I just think that’s the story they made up. I don’t think I’ve seen clearly for a long time, probably longer than I imagine.
I didn’t even think of it that way.
I am seeing a therapist, since he first threatened to leave.
I don’t think I ever really believed that...I think the goal was to get her into our home and have her come back on a regular basis. He had joked around about fixing our rv for her to stay in (before the actual encounter). I took it as a joke but I think he was priming me for that.
My other thread got erased because my question wasn't worded properly.
Thanks, I'll take a look at those resources.
That's how I feel. Like my entire world is falling apart. Saturday is our 16th wedding anniversary.
Forensic accountant, what’s that?
Actually I decided to go to therapy bc I wanted to make things work and he was blaming all the issues on me. This was in the fall when he said he wanted a break.
I really don’t like the idea of doing everything through a lawyer. I want things to be amicable bc we have two children to raise, and I want us to be able to be partners in that at least.
Because I still love him and I'm hoping he'll come to his senses. It's so hard to give up on a person that you have loved and trusted for 16 plus years.
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I guess that means you think there's nothing worth saving. You know it's funny because when I posted this I was sure everyone would say that I was ruining the relationship with the constant trust issues and the snooping and all that. I suppose that shows how messed up my psyche has become that I can't see the truth.