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Posting on mobile and not good at spelling.
About 5 months ago I got in to a fwb situation with a freind of a freind. At the beggining we had set up very clear boundries ie. no kissing my roomates dont know ect. (all of which have gone out the window) We would go on not dates (he was very adamit about that) and every thing was fine.
Very early on he suggested a trip as in like 4 nights away from the city that we live in. I like to travel so I agreed. the trip was for like a month away or so. we went and it was good. one bad night but over all it went well.
Since the trip we have been hanging out quite a bit like at least 2 nights a week. It feels fairly intamte. I have met his freinds and he has met mine. He has been coming to me for emotional things. In turn I came to him when I had some stress as well.
Boundries have most definatly changed. We did have one conversation reconising that things had shifted, and that we should redefine boundries. I am scarred to bring it up. I never have had a real "relationship". The one before this me and the guy were "seeing eachother" and after 6 monta he always inteouduced me as his plus one which i was not okay with. Now I am fairly comfortable with how things are. Then again I really don't like the feeling of not knowing.
So I guess what I am asking is if it is even worth having this conversation. Or if I should just chill about it.
Tl;dr FWB relationshipseems to be getting more serrious. I am wondering if I should try to have a talk to define what it has become.
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